THE man - думаю, это означает - 'тем самым мужчиной'
(полный текст я не смотрел)

This is a play on words. We have an expression "You the man!" which is something like your Ну, ты (большой) молодец! This is most commonly used for someone who comes up with a solution where there was none.

— What's with you?
— I want to go to my brother's graduation in Miami, but my car broke down.
— Is that all? Dude, take my car.
— I'm going to be gone all weekend. What are you going to drive?
— I have three cars in my garage!
— You the man!!! I owe you one!

In this song, Taylor Swift is playing on this phrase. If she were a man, everything she touched would turn to gold. She could do no wrong. Etc. etc.

https://tenor.com/view/youdaman-you-the-man-pointing-groovy-sunglasses-gif-6116038

https://tenor.com/view/you-the-man-proud-andy-samberg-detective-jake-peralta-brooklyn99-gif-13252242

https://makeameme.org/meme/you-the-man-gylyyw

http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3pzueh

Thank you, Uly! )

I’m sorry I didn’t reply sooner, I forgot about this post.

It’s a great question!